Tag: Support Groups

  • How to Decorate a Table

    How to Decorate a Table

    We’re attending the regional conference of The Compassionate Friends in Frankfort, KY this weekend.

    The conference began in the main conference room of the Capital Plaza Hotel. The tables were very nicely decorated.

    But I have to tell you, this is the first party I’ve ever been to with such unusual table decorations. Part of the decorations, right there with the center piece was a box of tissue.

    They also provided each of us with a goodie bag. And there was a pack of tissues in there too.

    Just a hint of the hard work in front of us.

  • GriefNet.org

    GriefNet.org

    GriefNet provides email support groups for all areas of grief. There are thirteen groups listed for loss of a child.

    GriefNet asks for a $10 per month donation to be part of a group. They say no one is turned away for financial reasons. They do offer a one month free trial so you can try it before making a donation.

    I joined the group for parents that have lost an adult child.

    The best I can tell, there is no access to past emails for the group. You only get an email if a parent sends one to the group. You then get all the replies to that email by other members. Traffic has been pretty slow in this group so far. Of course I could send an email to the group. But I don’t really know what I’d say or ask. It’s easier for me to join in a conversation that’s already started.

    I would get more out of GriefNet if it was set up as forums rather than email groups. If there were forums we could go back and view past topics. Forums also let users add profile information if they feel comfortable doing so. It would help me to see something about the other people I’m sharing my life with here. With the email group all I see is a name. I just don’t feel that connected. I must admit I’m not really fond of email groups and that may affect my opinion about this. If you like email groups this may work great for you.

    GriefNet has a library of articles on their website. It isn’t specific to bereaved parents, but there is some interesting stuff there.

    They also appear to have a place for you to setup a “virtual memorial” for your child. I didn’t set one up for Richard yet and I may not because this blog sort of serves that purpose. I didn’t see anything about charges for this service, so I assume it is free.

    Visit the GriefNet.org site here:

    http://www.griefnet

  • Compassionate Friends

    Compassionate Friends

    Grief Support After the Death of a Child

    The Compassionate Friends is about transforming the pain of grief into the elixir of hope. It takes people out of the isolation society imposes on the bereaved and lets them express their grief naturally. With the shedding of tears, healing comes. And the newly bereaved get to see people who have survived and are learning to live and love again.”

    —Simon Stephens, founder of The Compassionate Friends

    Compassionate Friends is one of the largest support groups for bereaved parents and families.

    They offer several written resources on their website.

    They have resources for siblings and grandparents as well as for the parents of a lost child.

    They also have a weekly one hour radio show dealing with different aspects of life after the loss of a child. You can find an archive of past shows on the website that you can download as an mp3 file.

    But the biggest feature of Compassionate Friends are the local chapters.

    At your local chapter you can meet other people that have traveled this road in life. We are not alone. And only people that have experienced this grief really understand it. Sometime it helps to talk to people that have been there. People that have survived this ordeal. That can offer you hope.

    Most chapters meet once a month, but the chapter nearest us meets twice monthly.

    If you’ve lost a child Compassionate Friends should be one of the first places you go for help.

    Find Them Here:

    Website: http://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx

    Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Compassionate-FriendsUSA/90757574245